by Dawn Rose
When it comes to manifesting your future husband with the law of attraction, you have to make a list and check it twice.
Wording and intention really matters, because each word, feeling, thought and action leaves an energetic footprint in the Universe. When you combine wording, with intention and a strong feeling as you put it down on paper, you are literally creating magic.
Even if it takes the Universe some time to cook up your recipe and to deliver your order, there is no doubt that you’ll receive exactly what you asked for. Don’t expect an orange if you’ve planted an apple, and don’t expect to meet a ‘genuinely good-hearted man’ if all you asked for was a ‘good man with a sense of humor.’
This is why
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The first step to writing your future husband list is preparation
Ask yourself what you want a husband for and what the higher purpose of this desire is.
Making a deep, genuine connection with the higher purpose of having this desire will really help you create a list that manifests even the needs and wishes you didn’t know you have.
In fact, this is one of my biggest secrets to consistently manifesting beyond my dreams and desires – I always ask myself how my desire is serving the higher good, how it is serving God.
And I start manifesting from a place of inner knowledge and confidence that this desire is serving not only me, but it is serving God’s plan for my life. It is serving the higher good.
For example, MY higher purpose to create a family has always been to contribute to the collective consciousness by raising the vibration of love in the Universe by (hopefully) creating a trauma-free generation.
If more people choose conscious love, more people would build families, based on shared values, deep respect and deep love, which will collectively contribute to raising the vibration of unconditional love on Earth.
Serving a higher purpose immediately makes you a powerful manifestor, because on an energetic level, you are getting invisible support from all other people in the world who are working towards raising the vibration of unconditional love.
The second step to writing your future husband list
Follows from the first step, and it is defining your values.
Once you gain genuine inner clarity on your deepest reason for wanting a husband, it will be that much easier for you to connect with your true values and needs.
For too many years I didn’t understand what the meaning of ‘values’ is and this really held me back in attracting the love and relationship I always craved for.
‘Values’ are all the things that are truly important for you in a relationship.
Before writing your future husband list, you could write a list of values and put a number next to each one, to clarify how important each of these is for you. For example, on a scale from 1 to 10, how important in a relationship is:
Honesty
Loyalty
Generosity
Shared hobbies
Shared religious views
Shared spiritual path
Sharing the care of your future children
Your husband being caring
Your husband having a job that doesn’t involve too much traveling (this is a huge one too many women don’t think of in advance)
Having enough personal freedom in the relationship
And the list can go on and on.
You should most definitely think of as many things as possible that are absolutely non-negotiable for you in a relationship.
I will give you a personal example to help you out. When I was writing my list, an absolute non-negotiable for me was relocating. I loved the city I lived in and I even didn’t want to move out of my apartment. So, I definitely wanted to manifest a husband, who shares my love for the city.
Another non-negotiable for me was smoking. I could do with someone who drinks although I don’t drink, but I really cannot stand to be around smoking people because I literally get sick and lung congestion.
So, you should really think of timeless values like kindness, good-heartedness, honesty, and combine them with non-negotiables that are very personal to you.
Final step – writing your future husband list
After you’ve gained all the clarity you need, it’s time to create your future husband list.
As I said earlier, one of my biggest secrets to manifesting beyond my desires is always mixing prayer and manifestation, so I had a few versions of my list.
I had one version, starting with:
‘God, please let me get together with my future husband, who is the most perfect most ideal partner for me, who is …. (and here I list all the things we talked about) kind, generous, genuinely good-hearted and so on…’
I had another version, starting with
‘God, thank you for my loving family with a man who is kind, honest, genuinely good hearted, and so on…’
And another version, the most popular one in the manifestation community, which is an affirmation in the present tense like it has already happened:
‘I am now happily married to my amazing, caring, loving husband, who is kind, generous, genuinely good-hearted and so on…’
I had these three versions and I was religiously writing and re-writing them with a deep sense of gratitude and emotion of the wish fulfilled.
I also had other ‘items’ thrown into the list like eye color and height, because these were important to me. They came true as well. Still, I was flexible and I really focused on the timeless virtues I wanted in a husband, and I kept connecting to the higher purpose of wanting to build a family.
This approach to writing your future husband list is extremely powerful
Because it really instills in you the confidence that you deserve to be with this man and creates within you the feeling of the wish fulfilled.
Write and re-write your list as much as possible, visualizing and putting a strong emotion as you do it. Remember, when there is a strong emotion that backs your actions, your subconscious mind doesn’t know the difference between imagination and reality.
Even though the end result feels like magic, it’s actually your own intuition, your higher self, pushing you to go to places and do things that help you manifest this person into your reality.
It’s your higher self, pushing you to take inspired action towards the manifestation of your future husband.
If you follow these steps exactly as I teach them, you will be amazed at the results!
This is just one of the powerful methods I teach in my Manifestation Program, which is a unique manifesting blueprint, blending faith, spirituality, manifestation, and feminine energy work to help you become a true force of nature and manifest a love and relationship beyond your wildest desires and dreams.
If building an extraordinary family with an extraordinary man is your no1 priority in life right now, my program is for you.
Wholeheartedly yours,
Dawn
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