Who is Aries MOST Compatible With? Aries Compatibility Debunked!

by Dawn Rose

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‘Debunk’ is not a word you meet very often in an astrology article, is it?

Well, I am using it here, because my mission is to help you break free from the mainstream astrology articles that give you partial information on zodiac signs and compatibility.

My goal is to teach you to use astrology in a way that empowers you and helps you make constructive decisions in your life.

As I have already said in my previous articles on zodiac compatibility, astrology can only help you or provide you with answers if it is NOT oversimplified.

This is why today I will take a different approach to answering the question you are eager to know more about:

Who is Aries MOST compatible with?

Maybe you have a new crush, and you’re wondering if you have even the slightest chance of being a good couple.

Maybe you’ve been in a series of failed relationships, and are wondering if you just keep attracting the ‘wrong’ zodiac signs into your life.

Maybe you can’t even meet someone you feel attracted to, and are wondering if you have to look for a specific zodiac sign.

Maybe you don’t even feel like your Aries Sun actually reflects your true personality.

All these are valid points and if you keep reading, I will have it all clarified and sorted out for you!

First of all, let’s talk about

The rule of three in zodiac compatibility

It’s actually a rule that applies in all astrology methods, whether it is reading a natal chart, making a prediction, or checking your compatibility. The rule of three states that there must be at least three ‘testifiers’ that confirm the same result in order for something to be true in astrology.

This means that you need at least three methods by which you can check your compatibility that give you more or less the same answer or result, for you to be able to draw a conclusion.

This is why if I just give you a simple list of zodiac signs that answer the question ‘Who are Aries most compatible with?’, I can mislead you, because we will only be comparing your Sun signs.

Each person is a unique and interesting mixture of ALL 12 zodiac signs,

Because in one way or another they are present in your chart. Even if you don’t have planets in some of the zodiac signs, you surely have houses there, and each and every zodiac sign influences your personality and your fate to a greater or to a lesser extent, depending on your own natal chart.

So, what are the three methods by which I can check my true zodiac compatibility as an Aries?

You may ask…

Luckily, I have provided for you even more than three methods here on LoveSynastry.app.

First of all, the free love compatibility app I have created for you is extremely accurate in giving you an initial evaluation of your relationship and the long-term potential you two have as a couple.

I personally use it as a first step in the synastry analysis of my clients, and as it has not failed me so far, I have provided it for you here on the site for FREE. Check it out – it is valid for all zodiac signs.

Then I have provided two more methods, which I have broken down step-by-step, even if you are an absolute beginner. I highly recommend you take the time to study them, as they are indeed fool-proof and super reliable.

One is using the elements and the personal planets (including the Sun), but still taking into account the whole chart to help you determine the zodiac signs you would be most compatible with.

Check it out here: What zodiac sign am I most compatible with?

And the other one is using a few other methods to give you even more clarity:

What horoscope am I truly compatible with?

Does it sound too complicated?

Well, I feel it is my duty to explore the question from all angles, because otherwise I will feel a burden on my conscience by misleading you with oversimplifying astrology.

Still, is there a simple answer to Who is Aries Most compatible with?

Yes, there are some statistics on zodiac compatibility available by Sun sign only, and I am going to give them to you, considering I have already explained to you the rule of three.

In the course of the years, astrologers have been gathering data from their clients, and they have been able to provide some compatibility analysis by Sun sign only, but you have to keep in mind this information is highly subjective.

For example, a couple of an Aries woman and a Libra man have a 35% successful marriage rate, while the opposite – an Aries male with a Libra female – only 18%.

This leads us to the next point:

In compatibility, it matters whether you are an Aries male or an Aries female

Males and females ‘process’ the energy of the zodiac sign in a different way and this is why we need to take this into consideration, even if we oversimplify things and explore compatibility by Sun sign only.

Having said all this, here is

An Aries Compatibility Chart by Sun Sign

Who is Aries most compatible with?

Aries woman MOST compatible signs:

Aries, Aquarius

Aries man MOST compatible signs:

Libra, Leo, Aries

Who is Aries least compatible with?

Aries woman LEAST compatible signs:

Libra, Pisces, Cancer, Scorpio, Sagittarius

Aries man LEAST compatible signs:

Scorpio, Cancer, Taurus, Pisces, Gemini, Sagittarius

Aries woman neutral signs:

Taurus, Gemini, Leo, Virgo, Capricorn

Aries man neutral signs:

Virgo, Capricorn, Aquarius

Again, we must take into account that this is relative compatibility by Sun sign only, and in reality, if you are an Aries, you can have good compatibility with each and every zodiac sign, depending on your unique natal charts.

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*Note: I often mention Venus and Mercury in the analysis, and this is because they move close to the Sun, and Venus can only be two signs before or after your Sun sign, and Mercury can be only be one sign before or after your Sun Sign. For example, if you are an Aries, your Venus can be in Aquarius, Pisces, Aries, Taurus, or Gemini. And your Mercury can be in Pisces, Aries, or Taurus.

Aries woman and Aries man

You both have personalities that are larger than life!

As an Aries woman, you are outgoing, spontaneous, enthusiastic, confident, generous, independent, and your feisty personality can easily attract a male, who shares similar qualities as yours!

An Aries male is brave, entrepreneurial, ambitious, courageous, daring, spirited, and this drive for life matches quite well with the Aries’ woman’s dynamic temperament, always seeking for new beginnings and adventure.

You both are natural leaders, and if you are able to find a balance in the relationship, in which each of you has an ‘area of expertise’, where they feel they can shine, you can co-exist quite happily with each other.

You understand each other’s idealism, frankness, need for freedom and adventure.

Lower manifestations of Aries you both need to avoid: being too tactless, rude, aggressive, impulsive, selfish and impatient.

Aries woman and Taurus Man

The qualities in an Aries woman that may attract a Taurus man are that she is strong-willed, self-motivated, entrepreneurial, innocent, confident, and generous, which matches well with the Taurus’s need to preserve and build on a foundation that someone has already laid.

A Taurus man is patient, easy-going, relaxed, kind, friendly, loveable, devoted, affectionate, and reliable, if they live by the higher manifestation of their zodiac sign.

This can be a good match for an Aries woman, if her Mercury and/or Venus are in Taurus, because in this way she will share some of these qualities – she will be more laid-back, and not so much adventure-seeking. She will be more consistent, not so spontaneous, but also more security-loving, and family-oriented like the Taurus man.

Lower manifestations of the Aries woman that my drive away the Taurus man: tactless, rude, impulsive, naïve, impatient, self-centered.

Lower manifestations of the Taurus man that may drive the Aries woman away: stingy, stubborn, inflexible, greedy.

Aries woman and Gemini Man

What may attract a Gemini man to an Aries woman is that she is lively, dynamic, freedom-loving, independent, quick-witted, and spirited.

The Gemini man is witty, charming, energetic, talkative, and may initially seem very resourceful to the Aries woman with his ability to gather information and adapt to different people and environments.

This could be quite a good match if the Aries woman has her Mercury in Aries and her Venus in Aquarius, as this will give her some of the qualities a Gemini man appreciates – a friendly, sociable nature, the ability to network, the need to communicate and explore interesting topics together, and the need to give each other freedom and space.

Lower manifestations of the Aries woman that can drive away a Gemini man are not being diplomatic, being rude, thoughtless, impatient, and quick-tempered.

On the other hand, the Gemini man may drive away an Aries woman with their inconsistency, by being a hypocrite, irresponsible, and evasive. An Aries woman has a sincere, noble nature that will not put up with someone, who doesn’t live up to their word.

Aries woman and Cancer man

This is one of the couples that are less likely to work well together, since an Aries woman may come along too strong with her outgoing, frank, straight-forward nature to a Cancer man, who is more sensitive, touchy, and cautious.

On the other hand, if the Cancer man has their Moon and/or Venus in Leo, or the Aries woman has more placements in water signs – for example her Venus in Pisces, and her Moon in Cancer, this relationship could work out.

Both zodiac signs appreciate honesty, they are good-natured and kind-hearted, and there is the chance that they overcome differences.

If the Aries woman has her Mercury and/or Moon in Taurus, for example, she will appreciate the care and security the Cancer man can offer.

The thing that may drive away a Cancer man most from an Aries woman is her frankness – Cancers are quite touchy, and get easily offended which can be the biggest culprit in a relationship.

The lower manifestations of a Cancer man that can drive away an Aries woman is being too moody, melancholic, and focused on the past, rather than having a higher drive for life.

Aries woman and Leo Man

This is one of the fiery couples, who can work well together, if they both manage to take a step back from time to time.

What may attract a Leo man to an Aries woman is that she is feisty, confident, daring, spirited, generous, whole-hearted, and spontaneous.

On the other hand, a Leo man has some of the qualities an Aries woman greatly appreciates, as he is passionate, warm-hearted, gallant, honorable, noble, brave, and confident.

Indeed, these two share similar qualities that they can spot and appreciate in each other, and this is further emphasized if the Aries woman has her Venus in Aries.

What can drive them away from each other is the fact that they also share some similar lower manifestations of their zodiac signs, too – being too bossy, self-centered, not willing to step back and let someone else take the lead.

As long as they learn to make compromises and let the other one shine in their unique way, this couple could be great together!

Aries woman and Virgo man

This would be one unusual couple, as these two signs are very different in nature.

What may possibly attract an Aries woman to a Virgo man is her innocence, child-like nature that in some way reflects the Virgo’s inner yearning for purity.

What may attract a Virgo man to an Aries woman is their reliable, efficient, responsible nature, especially if her Mercury is in Taurus.

If the Aries woman has her Venus and Mercury in Taurus, as well as a mixture of more earth and water placements, the Virgo man may become a good match, as they will share a more practical, down-to-earth approach to life. The Aries woman will appreciate his skillfulness, handiness, and his sense of duty and service to others.

If the Virgo man has their Venus in Leo, he can also possess some of the spontaneity, whole-heartedness, affectionate nature, and nobility the Aries woman is looking for.

Some lower manifestations of the Aries woman that may drive a Virgo man away are rudeness, acting before thinking, and being too driven by pure enthusiasm, rather than analyzing each situation in life.

Lower manifestations of a Virgo man that may drive away an Aries woman are being critical, greedy, being too pessimistic, overanalyzing their feelings, and acting selfish.

Aries woman and Libra Man

This may be one of the problematic love matches, since the Aries woman’s courage may find the Libra man’s indecisiveness too ‘unmanly’.

These two signs are opposite each other in the zodiac, and this is always a prerequisite for attraction, since they both have similar traits and such that help them complement each other.

In the case of a female Aries with a Libra man, though, the roles may be switched as to ‘who is the man in the house’.

The Aries woman, who is courageous, brave, and risk-taking may find it hard to co-exist with a male, who may manifest more feminine qualities like diplomacy, subtlety, and tactfulness.

What could possibly make this connection a better match is if the Aries woman has some placements in Taurus, Aquarius, and Gemini, while the Libra man has some placements in Leo and Scorpio.

This could polish out some of their differences, as it will give the Aries woman some more style, tactfulness, sociability, and an appreciation of music and arts, while the Libra man would possess some of the ‘male’ qualities an Aries woman seeks – courage, perseverance, generosity, noble nature, assertiveness, and optimism.

Aries woman and Scorpio man

This is another match that may not intuitively work out, because of the clash of personalities that could take place.

The Scorpio man is extremely strong-minded, powerful, and passionate, and the driven, independent nature of an Aries woman may not match well with their need to unfold their masculinity.

Indeed, this love combo could have some future together if the Aries woman has most of her other planets, including Venus and the Moon in water signs like Pisces, Cancer, and Taurus, as this will make her character better complement Scorpio’s zealous temperament.

With a Venus in Pisces, an Aries woman is more prone to compromise, compassion, and self-sacrifice, which is often needed with a Scorpio, who forcefully pursues their goals.

If she also has some placements in Taurus, she may also possess some of the qualities Taurus and Scorpio share, which are persistence, reliability, and a long-term perspective for life.

On the other hand, the forgiving, warm-hearted, freedom-loving Aries woman may easily be driven away by the Scorpio’s revengeful, obsessive, secretive nature.

Aries woman and Sagittarius Man

These two fiery adventurers may seem like they have a lot in common, but is it really so?

They surely share qualities like optimism, sincerity, frankness, and integrity, but the Sagittarius man will most definitely need some earth placements in order for them to feel the need for a long-term commitment.

They are broad-minded, romantic, exploratory, and always on the hunt for a new emotional thrill. They are one of the zodiac signs, who love the buzz of life so much that they can find it hard to settle in a long-term relationship unless they have some Scorpio, Capricorn, and other earth placements that give them a better sense of stability and a greater need for security.

The Aries woman is very strong-willed, while the Sagittarius man is more easy-going, takes on a philosophical approach to life, and can drive away the Aries woman by being superficial and irresponsible.

This match can work well together if they share and pursue the same ideal, which serves as a higher purpose to both of them!

Aries woman and Capricorn Man

This is another controversial match, because an Aries woman, who is outgoing, spontaneous, and likes to act before they overthink, a Capricorn man may seem too cold, conservative and emotionally unavailable.

Initially the Capricorn male can be attracted by the Aries woman’s fiery, outgoing, spirited nature, and she may feel wowed by his reserved aura, but whether this can last in the long term is entirely dependent on other placements.

Some of the qualities that an Aries woman can be attracted to a Capricorn man are his cleverness, perseverance, sense of purpose in life, ambition, discipline, and endurance.

On the other hand, he can be attracted by an Aries woman’s ambition, creativity, drive for life, and entrepreneurial nature.

What could break the relationship, however, is the fact Aries are a lot more risk-taking than Capricorns, and they also have a lot more passionate approach towards love and life.

These differences may be overcome if the Aries woman has more placements in Taurus, while the Capricorn man has more placements in fire signs.

Aries woman and Aquarius man

This is deemed to be one of the good love matches, since both signs are freedom-loving, future-oriented, inventive, and independent.

The Aries woman is attracted by the Aquarius man, as he is progressive, honest, experimental, and full of unique, original ideas.

While the Aquarius man is attracted by an Aries woman, who is spontaneous, outgoing, entrepreneurial, go-getter, quick-witted, and enthusiastic.

Most importantly, both signs like to be led by an ideal, and they can come together in the pursuit of a common cause!

This relationship would be a specifically good match if the Aries woman has her Venus in Aquarius, and the Aquarius man has some fire placements that will provide the relationship with more warmth and passion.

The relationship may be challenged if the Aquarius man has too many placements in Capricorn, which would make them even more emotionally detached and unable to match the Aries woman’s warm-heartedness.

Aries woman and Pisces Man

This is a match that’s not deemed particularly suitable, and this is valid for all connections of neighboring signs.

There are always exceptions, though, and in this case it could be that the Aries woman has her Venus in Pisces, while the Pisces man has some Aries placements that give them drive, ambition, and quick wits that match well with the Aries woman’s personality.

Again, I cannot emphasize enough how important it is to look at the entire charts of both individuals and to check compatibility with the easy step-by step guides I have posted here and here.

You can make a very similar analysis if you are an Aries male, using the above-mentioned methods and the Astro Cheat Sheets, which give you the most exhaustive list of keywords for each zodiac sign and planet. They will enable you to gain great insight into your personality as well as the placements of the person you are matching with!

And, as I always say – never rule out your own judgement, intuition, and evaluation of whether your persona is living by the lower or the higher manifestation of their zodiac sign.

I love you and send you all the blessings in the world!

Dawn